Author Archive: Relentless

It’s Just A Lil’ White Lie by Relentless Aaron

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This morning Marv asked me about a deal that I talked to him about some four months ago. Honestly, if he did not mention it I would not have given it a second thought. If you know my state of mind, you know that I am anti-smoke & mirrors. Sure, I can be quite optimistic. But as a reminder to myself, I see everything as a lie until it comes to pass. Situations. Events. Promises. Checks. And, of course people.

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So, what is a lie? But before you ask what a lie is, you might ask what a ruse is. Even before you consider a ruse, you might want to check your honest optimism.

Sure, we human beings have high hopes by nature. We all want the good life and a great financial situation. But how much of that is real and how much of that is manufactured and conjured in our minds? The truth in any situation is the common denominator of “what is” or what is “more than likely” as opposed to what “is not.” Whats reasonable and whats practical can also be a part of the equation, however that, without some other elements might also be sweet optimism as opposed to “the truth.” A “possibility” of something happening… the possibility of some final outcome or destination is usually laking any real substance, and is more like a fantasy, if there is no “follow-thru” or “action” that enforces the dream or goal or intention. A lot of times, possibility could be mere pie in the sky.

But, check it… there are some folks that are skilled at embracing the process to progress, and there are those who abuse the process to get over.

liesLadies, he’s lying to you if he’s loving you for your resources. Fellas, she’s lying if she’s laying with you but for the conveniences and resources you are affording her. In the end, nobody is happy. Not only relationships, but there is a long list of ideologies, personalities and practices that support both. The key is for you…YOU, my friend, to have ABSOLUTE CLARITY so that YOU are not the loser in the equation. Even a TV commercial can represent a lie. Even a government official can represent a lie. #MayorBarry #PresidentClinton

I call this phantom promise the “smoke & mirrors” of life.

And you need to know the math oh-so personally so that you never EVER get hurt, take a loss, and so that you might protect your friends and family. So that you might protect your real dreams and aspirations; the ones you’ve backed up and believed in with all your effort and ingenuity. Being familiar and aware and installing preventive measures are your greatest life insurance.

 

Really real today. #Church #Relentless

PUSH – 10th Anniversary Celebration – E-Book (coming to a computer near you!)

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#1 NATIONAL BESTSELLER, January 11, 2004

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ACTUALLY THIS NOVEL TOPS ANY NOVEL THAT I HAVE EVER REVIEWED..IT’S A 10 STAR BOOK!!! This novel is a national bestseller waiting to be discovered. The book is raw, real & uninhibited. The twists & plots in this book will keep you turning the pages. The writing style of this author is both skillful and talented. It’s a novel of gangstas, hustlers, thugs and the women who love them. Reginald “Push” Jackson is the main character who will captivate your attention and draw you into this book. It deals with the rights and wrongs in the urban streetlife. Push and his sister Crystal, are thrown into growing up hard and fast after the murder of both their parents. Push gets sentenced to a prison term, only to be educated to excel in the world of gangsta. He comes home to be a big brother to care for his sister Crystal, and settle some street scores. This book is awesome. I am avid book reader, and I must say, all all authors would need to take a backseat to the work of Relentless Aaron. BRAVO Mr. Aaron !!! GREAT WORK!!

PUSH, February 12, 2004

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Deborah Simmons (Charlotte, North Carolina) – See all my reviews

 

push by relentless aaronI was very pleased with this book. I would recommend it to any and everyone. I was most of all pleased with the 24 hour shipment time, and as well as a personal autograph by the author. That showed a lot about the author’s character. He cares about his fans. Forever your fan.

Deborah

THE BEST THAT I HAVE READ!!, February 11, 2004

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This is an engaging novel about the underworld of betrayal, murders, thugs, killers, gangsters, big money, crooked politicians and erotic woman who serve them. It follows the ups and downs of Reginald “Push” Jackson; beginning when he was a teenager of 13 and had to care for his younger sister Crystal because of the violent death of their parents. “Push” struggles through the novel to be true to himself and those he loves. From the powerful foreword to the clever climax, you will not be able to close “PUSH”!

 

The book is very entertaining. “Push” brilliantly taps our realm of psyche, exposing our deepest vulnerabilities. This book will captivate your time & leave you guessing with every twist that leads you to its unexpected end.

 

A Winner From the First Page., January 26, 2004

By Courtney Carreras (SoHo, NYC) – See all my reviews

FROM THE FIRST PAGE I WAS HOOKED…PUSH IS A BOOK ABOUT THE TEST CALLED LIFE AND SEEING WHO FAILS AND WHO push by relentless aaronSUCCEEDS…A PURE WINNER FROM COVER TO COVER.

I HEAR THE AUTHOR HAS ANOTHER 29 UNDER HIS BELT…A COLLECTION I AM SURE TO COLLECT.

COURTNEY CARRERAS
Editor in Chief,
YRB Magazine
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An exciting adventure, January 25, 2004

By The RAWSISTAZ Reviewers (RAWSISTAZ.com and BlackBookReviews.net) – See all my reviews

When money, sex, and violence converge, you have PUSH by Relentless Aaron. Reginald “Push” Jackson is a black man living in Harlem, determined to make a better life for himself, his sister, and nephew. Spending the better part of his younger years in prison, he’s come back to the streets of Harlem with a mission, never to return to prison again. In spite of this, he also plans to avenge the death of his parents who were brutally murdered when he was a child. Push will stop at nothing to get what he wants, even if it means taking the risk of getting caught.

When politics come into the picture and millions of dollars are available for the taking, the story starts heating up and it doesn’t stop until the very last page. Push is one brotha you don’t want to mess with. Reminiscent of movies such as Dead Presidents and Sugar Hill, PUSH is an exciting adventure into the street life of Harlem. The book is real, raw, in-your-face, and graphic! Relentless Aaron manages to capture the reader and take them on a full-fledged journey into the reality of Push’s world.

Although it started slow for me, the book turned out suspenseful, engaging, and read as vividly as if I was watching a movie. In spite of this, the numerous typos, grammatical errors, and structure of the book severely took away from the story. There are also scenes in the book I felt were too graphic and too demeaning to women, yet I do understand the need to use them to complement the lifestyles and images portrayed, thus fully developing the characters. Relentless Aaron has a certain style that seeps through the aforementioned problems and I’m sure readers of street fiction and true crime stories will enjoy his books. He’s an author I’ll definitely be watching.

I only hope that readers do not become consumed with the crimes committed and the end result for Push.

Reviewed by Tee C. Royal
of The RAWSISTAZ Reviewers

push by relentless aaronPhenomenal!!! WHAT”S NEXT???!!!, January 20, 2004

This is an engaging novel filled with the underworld of hustlers, gangstas, thugs, crooked politrickions, eroctic woman, big money, dirty money, street scores to settle & unimaginable sex! This book was incredible! The main character is centered around Reginald “Push” Jackson. He is every woman’s hero and dream. Push is hired to kill, but how a can a killer such as him be such a passionate lover??? This book will astonish and capture your mind with it’s unpredictable twists & plots. This novel takes urban fiction to a whole different level. It’s powerful from the foreword to the conclusion. This is a style eof writing that will grip & hold you tight! It’s a page-turner that brilliantly taps in your psyche and exposes your deepest vulnerabilities. I have read this book 2X. What do I read now, Mr.Aaron?? Do you have any more books??? How do I get them? You are WICKED to leave me without something else. I NEED MORE!!! Where are your other novels??? Please don’t have me begging like this – it’s cruel. You give us something good & then you leave us??? Nah!!! You gotta (better) have something else! You’ve got my emotions all worked up after this novel. I must have something else written by you now; I need to know what you have in your mind again. I need you try and do this again. I like it TOO MUCH!!

 

HOTTEST BOOK OUT!!!, January 20, 2004push by relentless aaron

I was enthralled with this book from cover to cover. The crimes, the big money, the dirty money, thugs, gangstas, killers, raunchy sex, betrayal,the retaliations!!! No stone was left unturned here. What an imagination on this writer! It’s PHENOMENAL! Reginald “Push” Jackson is a man to be reckoned with! His character is every woman’s dream. I hope they make this novel into a movie. I love to read, but this novel has taken me to a whole different level. Do you have any more books like these, Mr. Aaron??? Where are they?? How do I get them? Please don’t leave me begging like this. Please don’t tell me you are finished, I need MORE!!! Please Hurry! It hurts to wait too long.

 

MASTER OF THE GAME!!!, January 20, 2004

By Phenomenal Lady (NYC,NYC–USA) – See all my reviews

 

relentless aaronThis is an engaging novel about the underworld of betrayal, murders, thugs, killers, gangsters, big money, crooked politicians and erotic woman who serve them. It follows the ups and downs of Reginald “Push” Jackson; beginning when he was a teenager of 13 and had to care for his younger sister Crystal because of the violent death of their parents. “Push” struggles through the novel to be true to himself and those he loves. From the powerful foreword to the clever climax, you will not be able to close “PUSH”!

The book is astonishing, well written, lustful & sensual. “Push” brilliantly taps our realm of psyche, exposing our deepest vulnerabilities. This hot book will captivate & leave you enraptured with every twist that leads you to its unexpected end.

Actually, I am UPSET with this author!!!! What do I read now??? Who can keep up with this kind of work??? He left me spent, strung out and begging for more! I hate you Relentless!; and I love you and I HATE you AGAIN!!! Why you wanna turn a sista out like this??? it ain’t right!!! This is not the way the game is supposed to be! What up???When’s the next novel??… It no matter, you late!!! hurry up !!! can’t keep up feening like this! This is too much to bear! I NEED MORE BOOKS!!!!

 

Great Read!!!!!, January 17, 2004

By Myra Nealy (Mt. Vernon, New York) – See all my reviews

 

I was impressed with the author’s ability to bring me into a world I would’nt normally care to go. The book is written in a “raw” format which made it uncomfortable to read at times due to its graphic nature and language, but at the same time it was intriguing. I did’nt want it to end. I loved the way he was able to translate “street slang” into a readable language. PUSH is a suspensful and intelligently written story that left me wanting more!

 

push by relentless aaronRelentless is Incredible!!!, January 14, 2004

Okay, let me begin by stating the obvious, I am not a literary critic.

I do not work for the New York Times, Washington Post or LA Times. However, after saying all of this, I must critique PUSH by Mr. Relentless Aaron with what sparse, humble and open-minded skills I possess.

I do not know Relentless Aaron personally, but I do know a gifted writer when I read his or her work (s), and this young man has a very strong voice. He describes his novels as Urban, Raw and even that’s cool with me. But, for those of you who might think this is too street-minded, then you’re in for a shock.

No, Mr. Aaron hasn’t kidnapped me and is forcing me to write this commentary. No, he is not paying me a single red cent, (hmmm, now that’s a thought). What provoked me to voice my neophyte literary opinion is the depth that Relentless’ novel reached within me.

The book may begin in a place that we have all heard tell of or have experienced in one form or another, but, I assure you, when the brotha gets through with you, you will not believe where he leaves you at the end of this fantastic story.

PUSH is a formidable mind game, with complex twists and turns, dips and falls. Its slippery, yet sticky. Its rough, yet smooth. Its hot, yet cold in ways that mere words can never fully describe. He’ll hold your attention and your very soul even in the palms of his steady hands and will only free you when he feels you’ve heard all he has to say for the moment–within this lone book, PUSH.

There are two chapters for you to read free online

 

Everyone Has A Purpose, January 12, 2004

By Flavah Reviewer (Winston Salem, NC) – See all my reviews

 

As an avid “street fiction” reader, I pride myself with the knowledge of knowing an enticing novel when I read one. A “street fiction” novel that allows therelentless aaron reader to see authentic perception, apprehend characters that are portrayed without using fairytale “Peter Pan” attributes, and most of all leave the reader with a good story that contains several enlightened edifications, is to be recognized. Seldom do we see a strong plot consistently carried out so there are no unanswered questions, the benefit of not having your time or money wasted.

Push, Relentless Aaron’s debut novel, centers around Reginald “Push” Jackson, a young boy forced to be a man in a destructive society. Push is determined to make a suitable life for himself, his nephew, Reggie, and his sister, Crystal. Embarking on the streets to find a means for survival eventually results in a 15 year prison conviction for Push. While in prison, Push learns a lot about the ins and outs of numerous hustles, such as politics, real estate, law, and the street game, just to name a few. The most important information obtained was the answer to an unsolved double homicide that caused his life to change drastically. Awaiting his release and revenge, Push starts to take “judgment day” into his own hands while still incarcerated, vowing to finish when he is released.

The day eventually comes for Push to step back into society and claim his spot with his newfound education. His plan is to rehabilitate the suffering parts of Harlem, NY with the use of personal assets and funding. The only problem is money talks. Caught between staying on the right path and taking care of family business, Push finds himself reverting to bad habits, little does he know “the streets is watching”.

Roy Washington, known as the local loan shark, has made a name for himself and is trying to accelerate to bigger and better things. Regardless of who he has to use, cross, or step on, Roy is focused on making it to the top. Being in the right place at the right time only opens doors for him, giving Roy the chance of a lifetime, putting an end to his unforgettable past that has slowly crept back into his life.

Relentless Aaron has told a tale focused on a community that encompasses annihilated mannerism, revenge, and political propaganda. Opening the door to the statement of year, “most of the sinister acts that take place in our communities have a higher involvement than meets the eye”.

 

THERE ARE NO SHORTCUTS, A Lesson In Patience, by Relentless Aaron

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WE ARE ALWAYS TEMPTED BY SHORTCUTS. WHEN WE TAKE THEM, WE CANNOT BE SURPRISED AT THE RESULTS. MORAL: THERE ARE NO SHORTCUTS.

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What folks need to know is that there is NO SHORTCUTS in life. It doesn’t matter if its business or love; nothing grows quickly. You must have patience and EARN YOUR POSITION. As much as this is a push-button world, you can/may/will reach a million people with a message, but then SERVICING THEM ALL EFFICIENTLY is IMPOSSIBLE for one or even 10 people. The only way to achieve maximum results is to have a product, service or message, with certain distribution.

The more people you deal with/who want your product, the more EFFICIENT you will have to be.

The more insulated you’ll hafta be. The product must speak for itself, COMPLETELY and TOTALLY and it must SATISFY the buyer to a certain end. Loose strings that require you to talk to and spend “Real Time” with a client is taking from the 24 hours you have in a day. There are only 24!

So, how many hours would you need in your day to cope with 1 million people?

Exactly. Impossible. So work SMALL, and support the few who support you, and TAKE ON WHAT YOU CAN HANDLE. Anything more, we might call you #BugsySeagal. #overfinanced #relentless

Five signs you need help to manage money

If you are living beyond your means and don’t have any money to invest after all your expenses, you certainly need professional guidance. A financial planner could bring order to the mess by prioritising your spending and allocating resources to your
Ask Carrie: 10 Scariest Money Mistakes—Don’t Be Tricked!

1) Living beyond your means. Do you use a credit card because you don’t really have the money to buy something? Once in a while might be okay, but do it regularly and you’ll end up with a stack of bills you can’t pay. The solution? Create a realistic
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Judge David Farrell QC said: “The fact is you are a fraudster. This conduct constitutes theft from hard working members of the public. “I know these claims started legitimately but you were living beyond your means and defrauded taxpayers for your own

Flashback – Relentless Aaron’s Mansion/Book Release Party

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This Is But A Test – Social Networking, Computer Technology, Software and Being Savvy About Life

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Well, for the rest of us who are interested, and who are not in denial, I wonder if you’re even prepared to indulge in any one of these three areas? I wonder if you’re simply perpetrating; playing it by ear. I suppose it depends on your agenda. Yours might be a traditional business, or you’re considered “a professional” who (with no overhead) performs duties, services or has a message or product to market. Or maybe you just “dabble” in business affairs, making your money via “the side-hustle,” whether its baking cakes, knitting sweaters or you’re a full-time auto mechanic (in your backyard). Scratch all that, as many of you are full-time Moms.

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Reminder: You Only Have 24 Hours To Live…

blog (10)Damn, Relentless. Sure, that might seem a little extreme for commentary but the facts are the facts. Sun-up, until sundown is all we have. I don’t care if you have $1 billion or ten dollars, the fact remains that we all still only have 24 hours to live. I hear time and time again (especially from busy mothers) how life is so overwhelming. I know businessmen and women who are constantly overwhelmed in their lives. Only in the past two days have I heard these overtures from individuals who are living million-dollar lifestyles. Sure they have their individual issues, however your life can only be overwhelming if you allow too much through your door. #clutterMany of us are so caught up in (and so intoxicated by) the excess that it consumes us.

And then when we consume ourselves with such excess there comes the task of maintenance of what we own or possess. In other words, you’ve got another job of maintaining all that you have acquired.

So why and how does this happen? My theory is that we become more successful and more productive and more accomplished as life goes on. But with that success, productivity, and accomplishment we usually see that financial freedom, and that leads us to experience more of life. I heard a line in a rap song yesterday where the rapper was saying if he had so much money he’d be in a different city every night. Oh to the contrary!

If you are spending one night in a city and you visit 10 cities in 10 nights guess what? You will not be able to enjoy your time in any one city!

You will not be able to enjoy or get to know the people you meet in the cities. You will not get to thoroughly enjoy the encounters and the activities in the cities. But, most times those who try to do this come back home and brag about how they have been here, there and everywhere. The truth however, is that you are so spread out so thin that your life is all over the place. You are either so caught up in that lifestyle that you adopted and enjoy the blitz of it all, or you aren’t missing home. There is a piece of video I saw where Beyoncé was out on her tour and missing home. yes the rich talented beautiful Beyoncé also has the same 24-hours to live as you and I.

My suggestion to you is to keep it simple. Especially if you are overwhelmed in your job, your family life, and your side hustles. trim the fat, focus on the juice of your life and simplify. of course, this is not for everybody and is simply my own theory on how to live. But you do as you do and by all means chime in on this conversation. #RELENTLESS

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Relentless in Random Cartoons

 

 

By now, we’re all clear how a picture is worth a thousand words.

Well, when it relates to conveying a message consistently, author Relentless Aaron also shares his thoughts through imagery. Here are a few of his creations.relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks relentless_aaron author mt vernon harlem atlanta starbucks

A Lesson In Sales Success & Failure – Entrepreneurship For Authors & Others.

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Now, here’s the juice: for sometime I have lectured on the zones: cold zone, warm zone and the hot zone. Stan is now in the hot zone where he’s looking to engage in business with me. Meanwhile, he is confronted (more like hunted down moments later) by the vagabond/clearly in the cold zone.

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You Don’t Have A Clue As To What “The Bottom” Is – Mary J Blige Made It, You Can Too!

mary j blige They used to say Mary sucked; that she couldn’t sing. That she was “too hood” for the music she made. But look at Mary now! So, as encouragement to all those wannabees out there (that goes for singers, rappers, writers, shoe salesmen and business owners)

you may not know that way, may not understand “the game” but keep trying. Keep striving to be better, to do better, and inevitably you will hit paydirt.

Neyo and Lauryn were boo’d on the Apollo Stage. Jesse (from the Force MDs) started on Times Square street corners, collecting change for his craft. I know becuz thats where I first met him. And, as you know, I began my career from a 4X8 prison cell where I had to practically beg for pencils and lined-paper. Please know that the illusion you’re being fed everyday; the idea that success is right there for you to grab and receive and assume is FICTION.

The truth is, you need to work for it. You need to be a good apprentice. You need to practice and take losses and study. You need to have the right connections and there’s a need to be tech-savvy. So much to realize success, and its not laid out in any one blueprint, and DEFinitely not on TMZ every night.

Keep going. Keep absorbing the information u need to master your craft. And take it from me, if you can read this in real time, you prolly don’t know what “The Bottom” is. Keep Pushin #Relentless

Random Posts From My Very Busy/Very Relentless Facebook Page

Screen Shot 2013-10-19 at 10.14.00 AMSorry, but I’ve NEVER treated a woman like this in a serious relationship. Mary: “a man that tears u down ain’t really love.” Instead, in my longterm relationships (all 4 of them) I recognized signs of troubled pasts.
Meanwhile I’ve run into poor self-esteem, indecision and “crazy.” So how/when can I take love seriously?
Its not imaginary/my potential to love is deep/where I need & want to be. However I’m not gonna sit around and collect cobwebs in (of all places) ATL.
Yes, I agree with Mary. But I believe a woman that’s been thru numerous losers is herself JADED and unable to see a great catch. A sordid past can lend wisdom but continued poor choices is a practice that SUPERMAN can’t even help u with. #soulmates #bachelorslife#relentlessaaron — at Starbucks.

 

Baby Needs Leg

so guys it took me less than one minute to text the word WISH to the number 80077. The five dollars will likely be added to my phone bill and at the and of the day I am helping to move an initiative for this little baby’s leg. SOME of you know this and some of you don’t but my father had his leg amputated in his early years and that disrupted his major-league baseball career. so this really touched me and I sent the text at once. It’s only five dollars. Please text the word WISH to 80077 (It can only be texted on oct 30) and lets help out. i’m heading to the gym to get some stress off ( before my date tonight ) how about that! talk to u later

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In Deep Thought - Relentless Aaron

 it seems every day brings with it Joy and pain, death and birth, conflict and triumph. Many times, the choice is ours to position ourselves on the high road or digress and take the low road. Many times, strength, courage and or wisdom is all that’s necessary to overcome your challenge. But take it from someone who fell/your past does not have to equal your future.

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I MURDER FACEBOOK with VIDEO, AUDIO, PHOTOS & my BOOK WRITING!

While many entrepreneurs use Facebook as a default promotional platform, I use it a whole lot differently. Facebook is a very big connector in my life. it has helped me to land the big money deals as well as to survive in the wake of the big money deals.

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Let’s See. Video Production. Book Publishing. Websites. Internet Radio and now Billboards!

And I’ve been telling stories ever since, in novels, in my graphic designs, Internet Radio, online commentaries, short films & tv commercials as well as in e-books and long-form novels. Storytelling has withstood the test of time, as evidenced by the Holy Bible.

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A Balancing Act – My Random Sexual Encounters

 

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TONIGHT will be interesting. I say: Salmon? She says: “No im a veggie” I say: “wine?” She says: “no, Bud Light Platinum” okay, this ought be interesting!

#holdallmycallsdammit 

#relentlessaaron 

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So maybe you watch my posts and enjoy them, or you ignore my posts with a side eye, you could be “spying” to see what new trends I’m on top of/what new resources I expose. Maybe you hate my posts (on the surface) but secretly love them and can’t divulge that you love them because other people are watching to see what you like, love or comment on. Imagine THAT; other people trying to read your mind based on shit I do, as if I’m some kind of litmus test for YOUR moral center. And may I add: what an EFF’d up situation that is where you cannot speak your mind and express yourself. I don’t know this world, I must admit, where your boss is watching, your preacher’s watching, the next-door neighbor’s watching, your mama’dem watching… everybody is watching your every move (yeah YOU) to decide if they want to move with you…

Just one great big mess of opportunity this social networking is. Interesting to know what kind of quagmire Relentless put you in because we are connected in some way <takes a bow>. I like when you all justify me when you repost something that I post; something important and relevant and inspiring. You all always preface your post with “oh ignore his potty mouth he is really genuine down deep inside.” lol!

yes Relentless is an asshole but some part of his brain is very valuable to us we need to watch him

But social media lends itself to the extracurricular activity that ultimately fuels my career and my voice/not necessarily in that order. Its also therapeutic because I don’t have a love of my own, and I truly do need balance in my life. Love affords us that balance, i my estimation. And everyone needs balance. Balance should be a

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prerequisite or should come packaged for every man everywhere.

There would be greater productivity less arguments and less killing if every man had some kind of ration where they could receive and even give some of those Life-affirming, tension-relieving orgasms.

Yes it should be safe, but know that this choice indeed attracts a list of good or bad results for you. On one side of the coin, random sex may leave you empty afterwards, where (as in normal relationships) the experience doesn’t afford the benefits of a “purposeful connection.” Your partner might be someone buying poppers online Amazon but still not be your absolute “soulmate” and was not necessarily for building or procreating or investing time energy and emotions into one person. In fact, you find yourself “manufacturing” reasons why you should jump in bed and love one another. It really is more of a desperate measure where you both are exerting those pent-up, backed-up desires for love. But there’s the flipside to that coin (Robert De Niro voice): there are usually no strings

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attached in the case of random encounters, just those 2 grown-ass adults, getting theirs, inevitably going their separate ways; back to their own individual worlds.

Folks, my random encounters are “off the chain” and generally take on a life of their own. I also (many times) share them with the world; play-by-play. I bring you all immediately to the story (my story) as it happens.

In most cases, you better know that such a relationship may not last. I wish it would, but usually doesn’t. Why? Because, I have my world and she has hers. Unless she’s been uprooted and her hard drive was erased, she’s not gonna drop everything and come running to me for us to happily ever-after. Another thing; I still believe in love and I know that I will eventually give this up and focus on “that.” But my consistent work and contributions to community require that “balance” I spoke of. So, can I get mine???

So last night was another wild meat-packing adventure. She’s 22, vapor-smokes and I watched her

photo 3wax a whole 6-pack of Bud Light Platinum.

I knew we were different in our phone calls and text messages. I knew that we weren’t particularly “yoked.

” But I did know that she was available, that she was cute, and that she was a freak. The women I want to love, and marry and create a life with have issues, or they have their own worlds they can’t get away from. So one day I said “fuck this.” I’m not gonna frustrate myself waiting for the woman I love; deny myself pleasures I deserve. And I know some of you hate me for this because 1) you can’t have this randomness in your own life, or 2) you don’t know how, or 3) You’re already shacked-up, married-up or boo’s-up. Either that, or you’re of a certain age where you’ve “been there/done that” and “randomness” is not part of your life. Sure, some of you sit back and enjoy what I do/how I do it. But there are others who are in denial and confused about how I live. And thats just fine; I’m not here to change the way you think. Many of my admirers/readers/fans, etc just love to watch me break it down; literally & figuratively. So stand by and watch and enjoy the pros and cons of The Random Sexual Encounters of Relentless Aaron.

BTW: In the scheme of things, on that scale of 1 to 10, last night rated about an 8 1/2. yes, it was random, meaning I just met her, and there’s a possibility that I will never see her again. But I can’t help thinking what if. What if…  Lord forgive me for my 48yr old  carnal desires. #relentless

RED FLAG DOWN – My discipline is my joy & pain, both

RED FLAG DOWN –
My discipline is my joy & pain, both

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I have to attribute my level of discipline to the Marine Corps.. it was October/years ago, at age 17 when I left Brooklyn New York’s Fort Hamilton for Parris Island.

You take a plane and you take a bus and it is the wee hours of the morning when you enter that island.

I remember hearing stories about the swamps that you see on that long road and how people have lost their lives trying to escape. And now that I’m older I suppose that such stories were more so about keeping the most frightened individuals from being paranoid and jumping the gun before those Drill Instructors had an opportunity to groom you.

But I got off that bus at one or 2 or 3 in the morning just like the others and I endured the yelling, and the screening and the hurricane of orders and instructions and directives that kept us (The fresh meat) in check and in line for what was about to happen in our lives.

So many details of my experience in the Marine Corps is shared in the book I wrote called Bumrush, however the biggest blessing that I took away from the military was not an honorable Discharge; it was my earnest amount of learned/acquired discipline.

Family I am jaded with discipline. Discipline is my plus and my minus. Discipline will have me waiting patiently on one hand, and on the other it will have me marching forward like a juggernaut with reckless abandon until I achieve the goal before me. Discipline will have me shut you down if you say you gonna do something/make a commitment, and you don’t. Another +plus is where my discipline will not permit me to fall for the okey-doke, or the smoke and mirrors, or the bullshit. You call them deal-breakers, those things that keep you from the things that you don’t want in your life. My level of discipline gives me insight so that I could smell and sense and feel those things that I don’t want around me and which I don’t need in my life. Sometimes I make the call quick and wont give you a chance to adjust. Bad, right? No SAFE!

Discipline can help me keep my hands out of the cookie jar when I know that I don’t have time for cookies, or that those cookies (in any excessive way) are not good for me.

Discipline keeps me from obsessing, but it also keeps me obsessing (if you understand me) where I will stay focused and interested and determined to achieve a certain goal.

disciplineDiscipline keeps me in that gym on a daily basis. Discipline keeps me writing daily to the point that I have written dozens of books and hundreds of essays and countless perspectives that you all read from time to time.

This discipline however, also serves as an albatross and rarely permits for human error. Thats a sad part of this value, that I will not stand for the so-called businessman who makes a promise to me and cannot keep it; can’t keep an a or a commitment. Can’t even make a phone call to change the time or date; just effing reckless when it comes to time management and someone else’s time and schedule. When I encounter a person like that and those red flags show themselves, I shut that nigga down. Because I know that those are indicators of what he would do in larger circumstances or with me already mixed up and be involved in his hot mess. So, it’s like Mya Angelou says “when someone tells you about themselves, believe them!”

Same thing with love interests! A partner’s digression or her lack of faith, or her faulty decision-making can send me into a frenzy and I shut it down. Okay so I’m jaded. And I suppose I am at fault where it relates to the 80/20 rule.

Because just as you women have to decide to deal with and except the 20% (the negatives) in a man in order to receive and realize his 80%? I too have got to realize that women are not 100%.

I too have got to take a pass in some instances so that I can receive the wealth of a woman. That 80%. Sure, there are certain things that I just will not stand for.

If we’re MARRIED FOR 14 YEARS??? Supposedly faithful and raising kids, and I leave for work at six in the morning and return to the house because Idiscipline forgot something some 15 minutes later, and there is a stranger in my house… That would be a deal-breaker. If you are in your 30s, and you do not know how to show up for a date smelling fresh and clean as opposed to having just played a game of basketball, that is a dealbreaker. In my mind, you had over 30 years to learn proper hygiene. And if you don’t know it at this point I doubt it gets any better moving forward. if the wife of a so called friend shows me phone bills with weeks of phone calls that you had with her husband/morning after morning/for hours at a time, something is amiss and I have got to see that as a deal-breaker. Finally, if we are working on a relationship and we are yoked in so many ways, but you cannot manage to stay in touch on a daily basis or even on an every other day basis, something is amiss. We are not on the same page. And no, there is no commitment in the air.

Yes, it is easy for me to spotlight and pinpoint and bring attention to the negatives that I see, but I cannot ignore the fact that the number of you who I have loved have had some tremendous values that attracted me and which embraced me and that I sincerely loved.

I look at couples who argue and love one another, and argue and fight and argue and leave one another and return and love again, and I see confusion. I see loss and pain and lack of growth in those situations. And I just don’t have time for that whole alleged “work in progress.”

i’m not saying I need perfect, but I am saying that I need consistence and I need purpose and, yes, I need to maintain the discipline. Discipline protects me and it comforts me, it secures and insures my well-being. If only I can identify, love and support a soulmate who can embrace, be comfortable inside of discipline, without a whole lot of “training” required, i’d be winning. #relentless

You Never Let A Child Out Of Your Sight. Never-EVER.

relentless aaron author, publisher writer filmmaker conyers georgia

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The first thing I thought when seeing this storyline in the media was, “SO???” (I really did.) Becuz how many children die across the country/the world even, but we don’t learn about it. hell,

EVERY child is important, not just celebrity-children or children belonging to celebs.

Becuz some dude throws a ball around and that a crowd jumps for joy, I’m supposed to mourn over his child (and the decisions the child’s parents made) vs some other poor, unknown, uncelebrated soul? Fuc outta here. I don’t follow football. Never cared about it. The realest shyt I read was “Who the father is does not come into play in this investigation…” That made perfect sense. I TOAST that reporter. What DOESN’T make sense to me is all this public outrage and uprising for the celebrity stuff, but you ignore the hungry, sick, abused, dead child RIGHT next door. Stop it.

Having said that, before you see me as some insensitive prick, and since I’m in “Rome” just as much a practitioner of our senseless practices as the rest of you, let me say: the Mother is as much to blame as the boyfriend. May as well leave the child near a hot oven #gasleak.

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Nevermind you didn’t know their was a leak or the potential dangers. You leave a child with anyone (even the maternal father in some cases) u

betta know that man GOOD! REAL good. Your job as “Mommy” is to never let that child out of your sight. NEVER-EVER. Meanwhile, the dude who executed these actions against this child is the worst kind of human being/yes, worse than #EddieLong and #WoodyAllen. History shows us these cats won’t live long. #JeffreyDahmer#ArielCastro. I give him a few years before someone behind bars makes the sacrifice to right this wrong. The other thing I want to say is I hope this sports star uses his celeb power to pull people together to address all forms of child abuse, on all levels. We need to stop with the Usher-baby and Tyson-baby woes and “turn up” to rep ALL babies. Because as I type this, some poor kid is being shaken, slapped, and perhaps even executed. Just sayin #relentlessaaron

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